Are you ready to do whatever it takes to save your marriage?
I'm Dave Worthen and I can help you rebuild your marriage and re-establish trust (or move on if your relationship is toxic) without your lives falling apart.
I am an Author, International Speaker, Consultant, Marriage and Relationship Coach with over 40 years of experience.
I have helped thousands of couples to rebuild their marriages.
As a result of my strategies I helped those couples get back into real communication and restore the trust that was broken. And above that I helped them achieve the relationship they have always dreamed of.
Dave Worthen
@daveworthen
"Your marriage should be an adventure, not an endurance test."
I know, I know...
When you entered your marriage or relationship, things were different. You did not start thinking that you will disappoint each other and struggle with your trust being broken...
What you really hope for is…
- That one day the communication between you will again be as free and intimate as in the beginning...
- That you can trust your partner again completely and move on from whatever derailed your marriage or relationship...
- That there are no more lies and secrets!
About my VIP Coaching Program...
By survey, 40-45% of marriages have been hit by infidelity.
Chances are, this has happened to you.
And if it has, it is often the most soul-destroying and marriage destroying virus to ever hit your relationship.
When infidelity hits you have nothing in your experience in life to help you navigate through it.
You can get in a collision with your car and be injured and your car mangled, but you know you’ll get the hospital care to survive and your car can be repaired or replaced.
It’s not even close with infidelity.
From the first moment of shock through the discovery of all the hidden sexual encounters and emoji’s proclaiming love and a new future, the road to recovery---real recovery of honesty and trust--can be a long one.
This is why I created The VIP Couples Coaching Program.
This program is not for everyone.
You actually have to apply to become a VIP client of mine.
And the qualifications are not too dissimilar to what’s needed to make a successful marriage and that is determination, transparency, and commitment.
But here’s the reason why I created this program.
First, many couples I coach need to see me at least once a week to get through some of the most difficult parts of the destruction that occurred during and after the infidelity.
Many coaches including myself get booked and you could be mid a situation that is breaking the back of your marriage and you can’t get on my calendar for another 2-3 weeks.
That won’t work.
So, I made the VIP Program to give you Priority Scheduling.
Second, you can be in a couples session and it goes great and then a few days later or the weekend arrives and it all blows up. And your next session isn’t for another week.
That won’t work, either.
So, in my VIP Program you will have access to me via a private channel that allows you to give me an update on your situation any time of the day and if needed on the weekends.
This ensures that if something does go off the rails, I can message you back and coach you in between your next session.
This personal access to me alone has saved many marriages just because we were able to handle the blow up in real time.
Thirdly, often couples want to email me with updates so they can put it in writing to make their thoughts clear on what’s occurred, especially if there’s been gaslighting or lies by their partner. With these email updates I can get real-time data to write you back within 24 hours no matter where you are or what time zone you’re in.
Lastly, you will get personalized homework assignments you actually have to do with each other to show you’re doing the work to improve.
Now, this program as you can tell is time intensive but many marriages need this attention and support to get through all the crap and out the other side winning.
That being said, I extremely limited slots open to take on new VIP Clients.
If you feel you are committed to saving your marriage, despite your partner’s reluctance, and you are someone that wants to do everything possible to overcome the barriers and rebuild your marriage, then I invite you to click on the link below and complete a short questionnaire to see if you are eligible.
This is what you can expect:
I'm very different from a typical relationship coach or marriage counselor. This is why after all those failed attempts to fix your marriage you can finally see the light and have success.
No general, cookie-cutter advice
Both in my program and in my coaching you'll get actionable, practical knowledge, advice and specific things to do that solves your situation.
We won't be stuck in your past
Whatever happened to you in your childhood is over. If your spouse is cheating on you, that's not in the past, that's right now. That's what we will solve.
You will see the EXACT issues you'll need to tackle
With my step by step coaching method you'll gain a thorough understanding of what exactly is going on, where is the root of the problem(s) you're facing as a couple.
I'll make the hard conversations easy for you
I know there are conversations you both have a hard time facing – I will not let your partner slip away from facing the actual issues, rest assured it will be handled.
Made the difference we needed...

"We had done marriage counseling with 2 different therapist & many online programs, but this program made the difference we needed."
group coaching clients

"Working with Dave is a life saver! I've grown a huge amount and am feeling super secure in my relationship!"
Alison w.

With each new week of homework my husband and I started to reconnect, and taking baby steps to rebuild our relationship
jen & stan

Dave truly has an ability for bringing sanity, guiding and helping that I hadn’t found elsewhere. Thank you! Thank you!
katy & Todd
a bit about me as a coach...
It wasn't always relationships and marriages. I started out as a business consultant, and my niche was helping chiropractors and functional medicine doctors to boom their business.
Funnily enough, it turned out that in order to achieve success in the business, these professionals had to tackle their private issues as well.
As I had extensive training about personal development, I started to help them with their marriages. And lo and behold, as soon as the marital problems got solved, the business issues started to fall into place too.

I realised that dysfunctional marriages negatively affect every area of our lives, while a happy and thriving relationship helps us to succeed and prosper in every other aspect as well.
So I dedicated my life to helping couples, and I've been successfully doing that for over 40 years now.
I developed a step-by-step system that educates couples on things no one has ever taught them before, and then helps them address their issues one by one.
